Sunday, June 9, 2013

Who Needs a Cleanse When You Meet Sasquatch & Get the Flu?

Our family was fortunate this year to get a full 5 days off and spend it in the mountains.  We had two family reunions back to back (on Mitch's side), and they were awesome!  We saw our siblings & cousins who live out of state in Utah & Alabama. 

The only not-awesome part was that 1/3 of the grandkids were puking out their guts at the same time.  By the end of it all, I'm pretty sure at least 1/2 of everyone in attendance contracted the flu at some point, because we were still passing it around for days after we left.  It was horrible. 

On Monday of the reunion, my baby started throwing up.   I thought he'd be okay, but by night fall, he wasn't holding ANYTHING down.  When he wasn't throwing up fluids, he was dry heaving, and throwing up bile.  It was so continuous, too.  I was afraid he had an internal blockage (like maybe he swallowed a rock or something) and that he would possibly throw up blood eventually because he was vomiting so much.  Then he started having diarreah, too.  I know someone who lost their child because they were so dehydrated from having diarreah & throwing up at the same time (it happened fast, too--he got sick and I want to say in a day or two, he passed away). 

So, here we were at least an hour and a half away from the nearest hospital, it was the middle of the night, and my baby was so sick; I didn't know what to do.  He had already had a priesthood blessing in which he was told he would be protected from getting dehydrated, and my bro-in-law, Kit had driven into town to get some Pedialyte.  So, fortunately that gave me some peace of mind that things would probably be okay, but there was no end in sight.  Mitch took the first shift watching movies & taking care of Miles.  Around 2:30am, he came to our cabin and it was my turn to stay up with the baby.  At this time, Emmett was burning up, too, and Mitchell had left the Tylenol at a different cabin.  He was exhausted, so even though I NEVER walk between the cabins by myself when it's dark, I told myself I would be okay, and I could be brave to save my kids (plus I needed to relieve myself, so that was double motivation).  I grabbed the flashlight, and hustled through the woods to the next cabin, a distant 50 yards away.  With each step I felt safer and safer.  Trotting along I grew more confident by the second.  Until it happened. Placing my foot on the steps of the green cabin, out of the darkness came a low, rumbling, man-like voice.  It said something short, but inaudible.  I didn't know where he was as my flashlight only illuminated 3 feet in front of me.  In that moment, all I could remember were the stories my father told me in my childhood of his Uncle Elwood experiencing creepy moments when he was with his horses, alone in the woods (even the horses were unsettled by their experience).  I didn't hesitate to stare Sasquatch in the eyes--I didn't want to see him.  Screaming, I ran up the steps, grabbed the door of the cabin, slammed it behind me, ran into the bathroom, and slammed that door, too.  By now, I was already talking myself out of what happened.  I knew whoever said whatever it was that they said, was probably laughing their heads off, but I still wasn't going to walk back to my cabin alone in case there was still a stranger outside, lurking in the darkness.  Startled by the commotion, my sister-in-law, Tina ran in to see if everything was okay.  I explained the situation, and she said she would watch me from the steps as I walked back.  How convenient, right?  She would stay in a safe location and watch me get mauled by a beast as I went back alone.  That wasn't good enough for me.  Still needing to get the Tylenol to save my children, I walked into the kitchen, and who was there?  None other than my smirking father-in-law lying on the couch.  In his raspy, low & rumbly, morning voice, he repeated the 4 words I had previously been unable to identify, "Can I help you?"  You cannot believe my relief in knowing that it WASN'T Big Foot who was lurking outside with malicious intent.  But as punishment for scaring the weebie-ba-jeebies out of me, I made him walk me back to my cabin.  Apparently Dale wakes up 2 or 3 times a night, and he happened to be out on the porch looking at the stars at exactly the moment I was hurrying up the steps.  Gee whiz.  If he had been wearing a hairy outfit, I'm sure I would have peed my pants.

Making it back to our little tool bunk cabin safely, I finished the night out with the sick children.  I was actually grateful for the comic relief, but I was still scared for my baby.  I don't think I've ever prayed so hard in my life.  As the night wore on, I finally prayed that my baby would be able to stop throwing up like this by morning.  He threw up for the last time a little before 5am, and finally was able to keep some Pedialyte down and fall asleep for a couple hours.  A peace came over me as I looked across the land in the early morning light. I was so grateful that my prayer had been answered.  Miles' stomach was still touchy for the next couple of days, but he only threw up about 2 or 3 times on Tuesday, and maybe a couple of times a day until Friday as he was on the mend.  The virus hit him the worst and it stayed with him the longest, but I know my prayers were answered, and I'm so grateful we didn't have to hospitalize him.

At any rate, for a while I had been thinking about trying a cleanse to jump start weight loss.  But, I'm telling you, after I met Sasquatch & got the flu at the reunion, I came home a full 5 pounds lighter than when I left (usually I come home from trips a few pounds heavier).  Lucky me, I don't have to do a cleanse anymore.  Haha!

Here are some other highlights from our reunion:




Don't be fooled by the cute blue jay on top of the out-house.  Uncles Brad & Brian told Kallianne about the "Fart-Hissing-Poop-Snakes" that reside under the outhouses.  She thought it was an obvious lie, until she asked her dad, Kit, about it.  Without talking to Brad or Brian, he reaffirmed the legend and told her, "Oh, yeah, those are the snakes whose hissing actually sounds like a fart, and it stinks, too.  You'd better stay far away from them."  She hesitated, "Wait?  They're real?"  We all died laughing when Kit told us the story.

The Borden Girls (not many of us)

 The Borden Boys (pretty sure the family name will LIVE on)
 









Emmett was starting to get sick on this hike.  We didn't realize until later that he truly wasn't feeling well.  He stayed in denial about being sick until he actually threw up.  I woke him up around 3 in the morning and said, "Emmett, honey, wake up!  Here's some medicine, you're sick."  Out of a dead sleep he JUMPED from the bed fighting mad. "NO I'M NOT!"  I said, "Actually, you have a fever and need medicine."  He scowled back and yelled, "NO I DON'T!!!!"  Mitch and I were cracking up; it was HILARIOUS!  He was spit-fire mad.  I told him to let me know when he was ready for medicine.  About 20 minutes later, he popped out of bed from a dead sleep again, "Okay!  I need medicine!"





 Look closely at his feet.  Haha!
 



 Crawdad fishing with Grandpa Borden


 Miles & Merrill finally met for the 1st time, now that they're ONE year old!
 
 Regatta boat races




Learned about Grandpa Jay Whiting "All Hands On Deck"

Hanging with Aunt Tina--she always spoils the babies!

We have an awesome family--I couldn't love them more.  It's great being a Borden!

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

"Genealogy, I am Doing It"

The 1st step to doing Genealogy is keeping a record of your own life, AKA, writing a JOURNAL.  It's really not hard, you can do it, and you should do it.  Maybe your journal is your scrapbook, or your blog, or a notebook of impressions, or a daily compilation of what you've eaten...:).  What's important, though, is that you do SOMETHING.  You never know what might be most valuable to your family at any given time--your thoughts, your feelings, your struggles, your successes, your walk with God--what may surprise you the most is the value these experiences actually have for YOU.  What?  Your personal journal can be most beneficial for personal use?  Crazy, I know.  But, there have been lessons I've learned & forgotten, testimony building experiences I needed to remember, and good times to laugh at that I've re-read in my own personal journals that have helped me at later dates.
 
Many years ago, President Kimball said that, "...those who keep a personal journal are more likely to keep the Lord in remembrance in their daily lives."  I have pondered this statement, and have realized that many of my faith building moments (when written down) have helped to build my faith back up again later.  Sometimes writing down experiences helps you see God's hand in your life that day.
 
At any rate, last month my husband took the older 2 boys on a father & son camp-out, and so I took a mini-trip also, to visit my Grandma Carlene.  We typed up a life-sketch of her mother, Ella Mae, and her father, John Leo.  Grandma can't see well enough to type anymore, so all the editing is up to me.  She tells me the stories and I type them up as she speaks.  It was fun.  We wrote up about 15 pages worth of stories.  I learned a lot.  I laughed.  I cried.  Mostly I was amazed at my ancestor's work ethic--an art that has all but died in our modern society (now I know how my mom turned into a work-a-holic, she comes from a long line of them).  I wanted to keep going & make Grandma tell me her life sketch, and Grandpa Zane's, but she said, "That's enough for today."  And then she took us out to see the shop she'd worked on, and to see Wayne's new horse.  We enjoyed some hearty chit-chats with cousins, too.  I had to laugh--I think I was wearing Grandma out a little to make her tell me so many stories (even if it was her idea).  But it's okay that we didn't finish everything.  Now I just have another excuse to go visit her again.
 
 Leaving to the Camp out!
(Emmett puked on the way up from car-sickness.  Poor Mitch.  I will confess it made me smirk just a smidgin' when he called me, but I'm so proud of the boys for surviving without me to clean up the mess.)



Emmett riding Clara (my cousin Wayne's horse)

Tyson riding Clara.
 
Miles' miserable 5 seconds on a horse.

Emmett feeding Clara

Tyson feeding Clara  (don't tell anyone it was a marshmallow peep)

 Grandma rocking on her porch as she watched us drive away.  Her face just makes me happy, and so does the fact that her feet don't touch the ground in that rocker.  She's so short.  I love her laugh, and I have grown to ADORE her mountain dialect with a little extra dose of the words "them" and "was".  I never want her to talk any other way.  It was so nice to have Grandma dote on us all weekend.  We had the best homemade meals, and pure attention from a woman I would define to be "the salt of the earth".  Someday I hope I can grow up to be more like her.
 

This is Why Little Boys Don't Get Invited to Girl Parties

I helped my mom host a bridal shower for Ciara.  It turned out great, and we had a lot of fun.  In case you were wondering WHY you shouldn't let your kids "help out" (even if it's at the "end" of the shower): 
 
1)  Miles got chocolate cake everywhere.
 


2)  Emmett decided to pull the pillows off the couch and jump on them.
 

3)  Tyson decided to bounce a volleyball down the stairs.  We were 3 for 3!  And yes, Grandma Tenney, "When you have kids, that's all you've got!"  Stop laughing at us from Heaven, okay?
(No picture was captured--sorry, I needed both my hands to stop the flying object from breaking anything.)
 
 
 My mom managed to make the most adorable OWL CAKE!  Ciara loves owls, and my mom spotted a cake book recipe that inspired the theme of the shower.


We did manage to play "Pin the Mustache on Wes"....
 

 
And CIARA won the game without even cheating!  What a cute couple.
 

The "Dive-In" Movies

Mitchell is the KING of planning Family Night.  Just when I think that he's already out-done himself, he whips up something amazing like a SURPRISE "Dive-In" Movie for the family.  It's a long story, but we ended up storing someone's extra TV for a month, and so Mitch decided to hook it up one night by the Spa.  The kids loved it.  We watched Tangled...actually we watched about 1/2 of Tangled because it was a school night.  At the end of the school year, I was pleased to see in Tyson's writing portfolio, a journal page about our family night including an illustration with our family in the jacuzzi, watching a TV with Rapunzel and her long yellow hair drawn on the screen.  Moments like these just make me happy.  If you've never done a "dive-in" movie, you've gotta put it on your bucket list. 
 
 


Friday, May 31, 2013

Miles' 1st Birthday

I can't even believe it's been a year since I had my baby boy!  Technically it's been 13 months now that I'm posting about it...which also means it's been a full year for my brother on his mission to Guatemala.  Time flies so fast--you've got to soak up every moment!  Here are the moments we try to soak up with our sweet Baby Miles!

  • Miles can say:  Mom, Dad, up, hi, Jesus, baba, and this.

  • His favorite word to use is "this", he is always pointing at things and asks, "zthis?" (and I do mean ALWAYS)

  • He waves good-bye, and occasionally blows kisses...except his mouth stays wide open & his tongue is usually sticking out still when he moves his hand back and forth to his face to "blow kisses".

  • Let's not forget that he is the happiest baby I've ever known, and he is constantly smiling at everyone. Uncle Brian always calls him "SMILES", which almost always merits a sheepish grin from the Big Boy.


Miles 1st Birthday Celebration:
He got embarrassed when we sang Happy Birthday to him.  He totally understood all the hullaballo was for him.  When we started singing, he bashfully ducked his head down between his shoulders and acted embarrassed.  It was so darling.  We also found his cake (aka GIANT cupcake) at the local grocery store--it was the perfect size, and gee whiz, that colorful frosting makes the best Birthday Beard I've ever seen!  :)
 
 
 

 








All his baby toys were ELECTRONIC baby toys--he is OBSESSED with electronics (cell phones, remotes, calculators, anything that has buttons and lights up).  All of his birthday gifts had buttons, made noise, and light up.  He is still happy with them, and I'm grateful my cell phone no longer has insane amounts of slobber on it day in and day out.


Proof that we brush teeth after cake.  Isn't he cute?



This was the day after his birthday--I couldn't resist.  He's so darling!
 
Happy Birthday, my sweet little BUGABOO!

Friday, May 24, 2013

Graduation Speech

Tonight the most memorable graduation speech (given by a student) had a very loud and clear message:

LIFE HAS NO PURPOSE.

Is that inspiring or what?

I don't often state my feelings in a blunt way, but let me tell you how I truly feel:

Welcome to high school and the world we live in. Atheism and Liberalism can ring loud and clear, but don't you dare hint at God, or you'll be crucified.  We live in a society where teachers may freely teach, discuss, give input & express acceptance of politically correct social, liberal, and atheist concepts, but they must walk on eggshells if their moral views differ in the slightest or hint at a personal belief in God.

Back to the speech.  Apparently her dad told her the answers to life's 3 greatest questions when she entered Kindergarten, at the time she didn't understand them, but she understands them, now.  He told her that there is no purpose to life, the secret to life is f(x), and that the meaning in life is when you are surrounded by those you love.  She explained that none of us have a purpose for being here, that applying f(x) to life means that you get out of it what you put into it, and that it's important to have love.  I can only agree with her 2nd and 3rd points.  I overheard people standing near us as they recapped other memorable moments in the speech:  "I learned that she hates Shakespeare, and that dreams don't come true."  Unfortunately, it looks like her shocking comments left a louder impression than her inspirational moments.

A few weeks ago I heard another high school student give a speech on character at a National Honors Society Induction.  His opening statement was, "It's hard to define character, because it means something different to everyone."

What does he mean it means something different to everyone?  Maybe that's how he feels, because when he looks around, that's how our society is functioning.  But why?  Believer or non-believer, we should have the same standard for character as a society.  Character should not be difficult to define!  It's explained in simple terms on charactercounts.org:  Trustworthiness, Respect, Responsibility, Fairness, Caring.  But instead of helping our kids understand character, they are growing up in a society where definitions of character are changed daily based on the most popular trend.  Lucky us, we're winding up with a lack of culture and respect.

As the night wore on, we congratulated the graduates (insert photos here), and as we left, our conversation turned to some of the most recent happenings in the national news - the Oklahoma tornado, the brutality overseas, local criminal trials, etc.  I made the comment that as tragic as it is, I think losing a loved one to a tornado would be better than losing a loved one in an attack, and my son piped up, "This world is just getting so bad!  We need more missionaries, more churches, more people believing in Christ!"

My brother, Heber was amazed and said, "What 6 year old says things like that?"

I told Tyson he should have given the graduation speech.  It made a lot more sense.  What this world needs is more people reaching out to others, more churches teaching principles of kindness, morality, love.  Without a doubt, we need more believers who turn to God, not away from him. 

But honestly, even if you don't believe in God, believe that life has purpose and meaning--even if it's just a purpose, mission, or passion that you choose.  For goodness sake, please have a purpose, and teach your Kindergartner that life is worth living for!  Make your family your purpose--be the best brother, sister, husband, wife, aunt, uncle, mom or dad that you can be, but don't turn your energy and love for life stagnant by removing the reasons that would motivate you and your kids to keep aspiring higher.  Having a purpose is what helps us strive to be better.

Here's the truth, folks:
 (taken from http://www.lds.org/friend/2008/01/my-life-is-a-gift-my-life-has-a-plan?lang=eng)

All human beings—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny (“The Family: A Proclamation to the World”).

My Life Is a Gift; My Life Has a Plan


My life is a gift; my life has a plan.
My life has a purpose; in heav’n it began.
My choice was to come to this lovely home on earth
And seek for God’s light to direct me from birth.
(“I Will Follow God’s Plan,” Children’s Songbook, 164–65)
 
These words teach that you lived with Heavenly Father before you came to earth. You are His child. Heavenly Father asked His Son, Jesus Christ, to create the earth. The earth was prepared so you could come and receive a body. You were also given agency, and you chose to come to earth and learn to follow Heavenly Father’s plan.