I don't know if it's a 6 year old thing. I don't know if it's a boy thing.
But what I do know is that my oldest can only follow one direction at a time. If I say, "Make your bed, brush your teeth, and fix your hair," he only makes the bed. If I say, "Now brush your teeth and fix your hair," he only brushes his teeth. I don't know if he zones out after the first task.
I don't know if it's just proof that men do not "multi-task"...ever...in their lives. I just know this seriously affects our morning routine. So today I finally took the time to write out a list. I only told him ONE thing to do:
"Do everything on this list." I handed the list to Tyson, he crossed each item off as he went, and I didn't have to ask him to do ANYTHING twice. The morning went SMOOTHLY. It was lovely!
But as usual, he taught me more than I taught him. First of all, I learned that I should have listened to my motherly intuition by doing this list idea MONTHS ago.
But most importantly, I learned that sometimes the most important things we SHOULD do get left off our lists of to-do's - like showing your family LOVE.
Tyson added 3 more of his own necessary things to his list: "Kis mom, hug Emmett, hug Miles...."
He melts my heart!
And yes, before school, Tyson crossed everything off his list. I actually got 2 kisses from him - one after he fixed his hair, and another when he hopped out of the car to go to school.
Okay, that is so sweet!
ReplyDeleteSo sweet. We just love you. Such an amazing woman and mother.
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