A couple weeks ago, I stopped by a friend & neighbor's house to see how he was doing because I had heard he was sick. Come to find out, he's not just sick. He has terminal cancer.
That was not the kind of thing I was expecting to hear that day. Since that day, I've had him on the back of my mind and I've made an extra effort to "soak in" all the precious moments each day. Instead of feeling like I'm "getting my fill", I'm finding that I'm not getting enough because those moments are fleeting. You have to make time for them. You never know when the few seconds you choose to look your kids in the eyes and listen might actually be the only moments you get that day because you have to leave for something and when you get home, they've gone to bed early. You have to stop things that aren't important, and even when you do this, you still feel like there's not enough time in the day. But it's a beautiful thing to get to try to soak in the moments better than the day before. Here are some moments we've tried to seize in the last 2 weeks:
It's a miracle! They're not fighting over the car, they've CRAMMED into it to share!
The flash washed Emmett's face out, but the glass captured his reflection! Awesome!
"Mom! Close your eyes! It's a surprise for you! Wait..." and he brought me a big beautiful rose that he found on the ground. I carried it around the zoo & he made me feel special.
Later that week out of the blue one day he said, "You know, giraffes can stop and smell the roses."
And when the rose began to wither, Mitchell brought me a new rose that he got from a yard he was working in. When Tyson saw the rose he gave me was replaced with one Mitch gave me, he pouted, scowled, and cried, "You ruined my heart! I wanted to give her a new flower!" So that same day, Mitch went to the grocery store with Tyson and bought me a rose that he let Tyson hand to me. : )
All those roses have now withered and died, too, but don't worry, the spring flowers that bloom on our bush out front are picked almost daily by Tyson to surprise me, and he's teaching Emmett how to do it, too. : ) I have the sweetest children and I love that they want to give me spring time flowers to make my day brighter!
We were supposed to be making the bed, but Mitch caught Tyson and I reading instead. : ) Dave Ramsey & Dinosaurs--it doesn't get better than that. Haha!Does Mitch look bogged down to you? No--he actually had an extra spring in his step because he was carrying ALL the fixings for our family to HAND CRANK homemade ice cream while we were waiting for the Easter Pageant this year...and boy was it delicious. : )
Jilliam got sick in the hospital, and Emmett found the best spot in the room--on top of the couch, overlooking the valley. So cute!
Sick face! Stupid pneumonia!
Our very first date EVER was an ASU baseball game, so we like to go back and relive the moment every now and then. We convinced Mike and Lindsay to go, too, and the sweetest cousin eva watched our kids that night--thanks so much Ciara! At the game we took a couple pictures like this & then decided that Mitch & Mike needed some "picture taking practice". Here are some of the best takes:
Since we were dating I was told Mitch wasn't very photogenic, but after glamour shots with Deb, I would venture to say that Mitch has reached the photogenic status. Way to go, Babe!We may look like ASU die-hard fans, but just so you know, Mitchell totally yelled, "Let's go D-Backs" at the top of his lungs during the Sun Devil's game that night. I laughed my head off and he was so embarrassed, but that's okay. : )
Mike & Lindsay's idea of picture practice. : )
And as for my post title--if you are an uncultured swine...okay maybe that's a little harsh...if you aren't "in the loop", Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs is one the most hilarious movies ever made, and that's where we got our variation on "Carpe Diem", but the principle is the same. : ) For your viewing pleasure, here is the link to the way our favorite show begins--my kids and I laugh EVERY SINGLE TIME: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ufmmsLf9rk